Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Lynda's Visitation

I want to thank everyone who shared their time with us tonight to reflect on the time they spent with Lynda throughout the years. It was a blessing to us to see so many familiar faces and catch up on what's been going on since we last spoke. There is one thing I know for sure and that is no matter how long it's been since friends were together, they can pick right up like it was yesterday.

Lynda looked just like she was sleeping. I kept waiting for her to move her head from side to side like she did while in ICU. I sat and looked at her body trying to memorize every feature (as if I could forget a single detail). You are never prepared really. Even with years of knowing that any number of things could compromise Lynda's health, it is overwhelming when it happens. Yet as I looked at her body and all of the pictures of her growing up surrounding her, the fact never escaped me that Lynda is not here. That body is just what she used while on this earth for almost 42 years.

For the first time since I met Lynda in 1975, I don't have to pray that Lynda will be safe, seizure-free or anything else. Lynda is with our heavenly Father and is perfect in every way. Can you imagine living for almost 42 years unable to communicate for 30 of those years? Now picture a new Lynda in heaven---speaking, communicating, laughing and having all of eternity to do it in.

I thank God for sharing Lynda with me. Being Lynda's mother was one of the most wonderful experiences I have ever had. God was never far away. He promised to equip me with what I needed andhe did over and beyond what I could imagine. Tomorrow we will say our final farewell to Lynda as we knew her. I can't wait to see her again in heaven. Even before she died, I looked forward to us both being in heaven so I could talk to her and hear her sweet voice again. I'm glad you're in heaven, Lynda. You deserve the best of the best.

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