Friday, August 9, 2013

Frustrations...These Too Will Pass

Well, this has been a generally frustrating day for a person who isn't exactly in the prime place to handle frustrations. They're not anything anyone did on purpose but I had my heart set on seeing both of these today...kind of as steps toward closure of the funeral process. First, the Booneville paper is a weekly paper that only comes out on Thursday. We went by the cemetery this morning and then went to pick up a paper. We turned to the obits and immediately saw our friend Betty Jo Downs' obituary who passed away the afternoon that Lynda died in the morning. Lynda's obituary wasn't there. Then we went to Pontotoc to look at monument options and were astounded by the prices. The biggie, however was going by the funeral home to pick up the video of the service and finding it had not been recorded. I am heartsick. I so wanted Brother Gary's remarks and Bro Allen's songs. There was some miscommunication and there's absolutely nothing that can be done to change it. We were skyping with Kris and he has some audio (poor quality) but it didn't record the video. No sense to dwell on it.

When I look at the big picture, all that matters is that Lynda is no longer in pain AND she is with Jesus---literally with Jesus! Looking at His face, feeling his arms around her, talking to Him! It makes me so grateful to God for sending His only son and at the same time, I am in awe that Jesus was willing to take my sins and those of all believers to the cross. Because of this grace I can someday stand before God as blameless and pure as Lynda is. When God looks at me He will see Jesus who took my sins and because of this God will see me pure and blameless as Jesus is. It's certainly not because I deserve it. There is absolutely nothing that I have done or could do to earn my ticket to heaven. My big brother Jesus made all of the travel arrangements for me. He paid the price and He's got every detail ready for me in heaven. He told me He was going to prepare a place for Lynda, and for me and for all believers who have put their lives and trust into Him as a personal savior. It just blows me away to think that when I arrive in heaven and meet God, Jesus is going to be there to say "This one's with me". I paid the price for her.

I adopted Lynda when she was a little over three years old. If we belong to Jesus, we are all adopted sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father. Now this should blow your mind to think that the creator of the universe, King of Kings is OUR Father and his son is our brother! We have watched the future prince of England in awe of the wealth he will inherit just by being born into the family of royalty. Well, guess what? SO AM I. I am the daughter of the King and joint heirs with Jesus. So is Lynda. So are you if you've allowed Jesus to save you by grace by giving your life's control to Him and trusting Him to meet your every need. You and I are adopted with a big brother willing to give His life for us. That big brother carried Lynda into Paradise and when the time comes, He will do the same for me. I hope my mansion is next door to Lynda's. I'm sure hers will be the most beautiful on the block.

So when the frustrations of the day threaten to unravel my calm, I try to think about the one who can provide the peace that is beyond all understanding. When I worry about how much funerals and monuments cost here on earth, I remember this is temporary. God's kingdom is forever and Lynda is in her true "forever" home. The cost for that is already paid for with blood and a cross. Tomorrow will probably be a better day but regardless...Lynda is perfect and one day I will be too...all because of Jesus.

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